COUPLES THERAPY in Los Angeles CA
Love brought you together, healing keeps you together
Does it feel like the person you fell in love with is gone? Maybe it used to feel like you were a team, but now it feels like you're speaking different languages. Maybe you're having the same fight over and over, just with different details. Or perhaps you've stopped fighting altogether and now live like roommates who happen to share a bed. Or maybe you’re looking to spice things up by reigniting your sex life or exploring ethical non-monogamy. You love each other, but you don't like each other very much right now.
Those conversations that used to flow easily now feel like walking through a minefield. You find yourself keeping score of who did what, or shutting down completely when things get heated. Maybe one of you is always trying to fix things while the other pulls away. You might catch yourself thinking, "This isn't what I signed up for," or wondering if you've simply grown apart for good.
The connection you once had feels buried under years of hurt feelings, unmet expectations, and communication breakdowns. You're trying, but somehow you keep missing each other. You might feel like you're failing at what matters most- your relationship.
You don’t have to keep going on like this. It’s time for you to get clear on what’s not working, reignite the passion, and get on the same page about what you want your relationship to feel like.
It’s time to fall in love again.
Therapy that Heals:
Sexual intimacy problems
Healing from resentment
Communication breakdowns
Constant fighting and conflict
Establishing healthy boundaries
Healing from infidelity and trust issues
Financial stress and money conflicts
Parenting or fertility disagreements
In-law or family boundary issues
Emotional disconnection
Life transitions and stress
What will couples therapy be like?
Using approaches like Intimacy From the Inside Out (IFIO) and elements of Imago Relationship therapy and attachment theory, we'll help you understand that the parts of each of you that show up in conflict aren't trying to hurt your partner(s)- they're trying to protect you. Maybe your critical part learned early that pointing out problems keeps you safe, or your withdrawing part discovered that shutting down prevents more pain.
We'll work together to create new patterns where everyone can feel heard and valued. You'll learn to recognize when old wounds are driving current fights, and how to have conversations that actually bring you closer instead of pushing you apart. This isn't about finding out who's right or wrong- it's about building relationships where everyone can be themselves and still feel safe and loved.
You'll discover how to fight fair, reconnect after arguments, and create the emotional safety that intimacy requires. We'll help you remember why you fell in love in the first place, while building skills to handle whatever challenges come next.
Every day you stay stuck in these patterns is another day your love gets buried under resentment and distance. You deserve to feel chosen, understood, and cherished by your partner(s). The relationship you dreamed of when you first got together is still possible; it just needs some support to find its way back.
If you're tired of walking on eggshells, if you miss feeling like best friends, if you want to stop hurting those you love most, then it's time to get support. You’ve been brought together for a reason, and with the right care, your love can become stronger than it ever was before. Book a consultation today, and let's start rebuilding the connection you deserve.
meet your Couples Therapy Experts in Los Angeles CA
Hannah Nicolaci LMFT
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
I bring specialized training in helping couples break free from unhealthy patterns or traumatic pasts. Through trauma-informed, sex-positive therapy, I help partners rebuild trust, address physical and emotional barriers to connection, and create a relationship grounded in safety, pleasure, and mutual respect.
Jessiline Berry AMFT
Registered Associate Marriage & Family Therapist
I offer affirming, sex-positive therapy for relationships that don't fit the traditional mold. Whether you're in a dyad, triad, polycule, or exploring ethical non-monogamy, I provide compassionate guidance to help you strengthen communication, navigate jealousy, and build the authentic, passionate connections you're seeking.
It’s your time to Bloom
You’ve already tried everything you can to repair or reignite your relationship, but it hasn’t quite worked. This struggle doesn't have to be your forever. You deserve a life where connection feels safe, pleasure feels passionate, and you wake up excited about what's ahead. Let's make that your reality- reach out today.